Regretting now? - 7 signs you weren't meant to be together

Isn’t it quite easy to raise hands and point fingers once a relationship dies? To talk about the other when everything comes to an end and saying that the other one was inconsiderate, insensitive, unhelpful and all the other allegations are more like consoling oneself for the same. Though, all we do it play the blame game to get rid of the pain that the broken relationship is giving, sometimes, it is all about the incompatibility that takes you away from your better half.

If you are someone who’s considering this, you must spot these signs (if there are any) and come to a conclusion before regretting is the only option you are left with.

Your lives are not aligned

When you two are in love, your lives are directed by the same force and lead in the same direction. However, if you aren’t meant to be together and things won’t work out for you, you would have a different perspective towards love, life and everything else. From having kids or not to have kids, everything that is supposed to be decided together, the difference of opinion would be a problem for you.

Spending time with each other is long gone

It is okay if you both are highly qualified professionals in your respective fields but if you still manage to spend time with each other, you will go a long way. If you aren’t sharing the habits that make your relationship go a long way which includes spending enough time with each other, you were not meant to be together. Because, if you did, you’d find a way to stay in touch with each other and find that few moments to be there for one another.

You feel stuck - all the time

There’s a feeling that you made a mistake by getting into this relationship when you’ve had a fight and then there’s this feeling that constantly haunts you. When the latter starts to happen, you need to let go of this relationship because there’s nothing left for you to hold onto in the same. Why put your peace of mind at stake when you know that these things have started to haunt you day and night? Let go!!

There’s nothing to talk about

Now there’s something that your interests are not common so you don’t have anything to talk about. Then, there’s something that every conversation comes to a blank pause where you just have nothing to say. That long-pause-and-no-answer moment takes a part of you every time that happens. And, when you cannot take a conversation forward, how are you supposed to take the relationship forward?

There’s no respect for you - at any time

Respect is probably the sole factor that can sustain a relationship for a long time. However, if you constantly feel that the other person is not respecting you or your thoughts and is being blatant/rude in the way of keeping things forward, this is not where you should stay.

It is a one-way traffic

Have you ever felt that you’ve been consistently putting in a lot of effort, however, there’s nothing from your partner’s end? This is the one-way traffic situation where it is always you want to make things okay between you two. There’ll be a time when you’d have to stop because you cannot clap with one hand and it’ll be the time when you have to let go of things.